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Slowly, everything is in time!
         Last week my mood has been very low, in addition to depression is accompanied by a continual worry, because I feel a lot of things to do, anxiety their work on the project more than half a month didn't progress, their anxiety for half a year to learn spoken English is not good, worried yourself too late to realize the dream in the heart. Maybe by zhang ailing's "fame to become early" poison, I am eager to early some to earn enough money for his father to buy a house in the country, I am eager to get his dream trip earlier, I am eager to in his relatively young age live a comfortable life, without all these things in my own is expected to finish, I will feel as if I was a loser. My heart rush roar, anxiety afflicts me of time, I asked myself almost non-stop efforts, I found that my efforts were not obvious effect, I feel confused.
  
  "If people can live for 100 years, in which sleep takes up 30 years, eating takes up 10 years, dress to groom for 7 years, walk tourism traffic accounted for seven years, call 1 and a half years, no one call after 1 year and 10 months, four years watching TV, surfing the Internet for 12 years, looking for 1 years and eight months, shopping 1 and a half years, fighting when he was young and married couples quarrel, after have children scold scold children removed again after 5 years, 70 days chat, blowing your nose for 10 days, 15 days, manicure psycholagny 8 days, the last remaining time for ten years. Ten years what can you do?" Whenever see something similar to this article, I couldn't help anxiety, I'm afraid too late to do what you want to do, I'm afraid too late to realize your dream, I'm afraid too late to have my desired.
  
  Actually all people anxiety comes from the "too late", can not afford time to figure out what they want, double head already pale; To determine their own love, each other already married; Too late to have a good to love her children, grew up he had to leave you for a long time; Too late, we have to the grave. We are afraid of everything.
  
  As I'm afraid too late, after receiving a few beans friends sent mail, some under the realistic pressure to do the job, you don't like to ask what should I do? Some ask me how to find their own interest or hobby? Others said in their own after the failure of the so-called "unreliable" try to do the idle work arranged by parents, feel confused, ask me how to seek self road? Some ask me when a copy what kind of ability and quality? Or at the request of the parents repeatedly to mutually close, exhaustion of body and mind, asked me to do? Some even in the second year felt like a loser, day and night muddle along, don't know what you want, ask me how to plan your own life? There are only 20 years old but very upset his own marriage, a wish to marry a rich man, live a comfortable life.
  
  Is all original confusion, anxiety, everyone from what originally everyone afraid too late, originally all don't know what you want...
  
  I began to ask myself, if I didn't learn oral English well within half a year, my life will become a mess? To realize your dream if I don't have the rest of my life, my life will be unhappy? The answer is no. Because I know I every day in the life seriously, because I'm working on step by step towards his dream, so every day is happy and substantial. Such a think I no longer anxious. Again I ask myself, if you give yourself two years of time to learn oral English, slowly come, give yourself time to 20 years to achieve your dream, slowly come, ok? The answer is ok. I the whole people to relax, immediately when I allow myself to come slowly, I suddenly feel that kind of packing, down-to-earth solid strength again back to yourself.
  
  Because the society is so impetuous, rhythm too fast, too much temptation, we easy to get lost ourselves, we need to constantly ask yourself, everything is too late? Take your time ok? Allow yourself to take to their feet on the ground to hit the road.
  
  Over the weekend to meet with girlfriends to have a meal, two people have nearly three months did not see, she decided to quit after Shanghai, back to hometown with family and boyfriend live together.
  
  I asked her for a new life scared?
  
  How she said, not afraid, it is scared to death.
  
  I said, you conclude in 2011.
  
  Paid off the debt at home, she says, in a relaxed, talk about love, also got the certificate of accountant.
  
  I said, you see, you grow up, really don't have to afraid. I believe you will live better and better.
  
  She wanted to think, nodded and said, well, there's nothing to be afraid of, fear most days are over.
  
  At first, we will always be afraid of, afraid can't get their desire for material life, people fear to meet less than the love yourself well, afraid to lose the youth also in not in career progress, fear they will do let oneself regret the decision, also fear lost their inner nature and pure, also often regret have done some things to yourself. But it all the way so we, standing on his own fear and regret, we are afraid of a little learning gradually, growth, enrichment, is becoming more and more powerful, for at the beginning to make a decision under the relief, finally to meet another is not afraid of your future self. In fact everyone is to us and, from fear to not afraid of regret to relief. May be not afraid of regret should not serve as our mOTOT'S in life.
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